Not always be possible to invite all who want it, and the decision about whom to invite and whom not to be taken from the pair of newlyweds and their families. This depends on the money we have available and the characteristics of celebration. So before anything else, decide how many people will be invited and then the place where the wedding will take place and any other details. To make the final list of invitees balanced, you can include a proportionate number of invited relatives, friends, colleagues, etc. from each of the two countries. The best way to avoid the guest list is unending to invite only those who really want to let you about this important day. All others may call for coffee or to see your house after you return from honeymoon. To be in line and sending the invitations, not to escape us any detail, it is best to make a list of invited guests, where to put all information about them. You can do this list in Excel or Word and to add a column for those invited, who have confirmed they will attend.
To solve dilemmas?
- There will always be someone who will not be satisfied or you will be offended by that, is not invited. The most correct way to tell for her wedding is the first to inform his family and his closest relatives (always private), then, his best friends (by invitation), and later others.
-Friends of our parents and extended family - I do not feel obliged to invite, for example, those friends of your parents, with whom you met in childhood. Many parents insist to invite their best friends or colleagues. Unless your parents do not pay your wedding or an important reason to invite them, do not do it unless you want really. The same applies to distant relatives or friends, just because they are inviting you to their wedding. If your wedding will be in the inner circle, people will understand and no reason to be angry.
-Half of the invited guests - always call for two people. If one of the invited guests had a boyfriend / girlfriend who / that lives in isolation, should send another invitation to him / her.
To ask his ex-girlfriend – Think well whether if him / her to see their wedding, it will not cause any more strange feeling in you or your mate. Also consider whether you would like it to invite your ex-boyfriend. If, after you thoughts, I believe that should be present, discuss it properly with your spouse.
Ways to reduce the guest list – You can invite your friend unmarried and relatives without their halves. Offered them to sit at the same table and see how they would like the idea. With regard to children - call the nearest and only if the time and place where the wedding will take place are appropriate. And as to your peers - the rule is to invite all or none. Good option for them is to draw them before or after the wedding.
